Please stay out of my vagina

In the last few weeks I have had multiple people ask me when we are having the next baby. Well I get that people are not asking to be malicious.  The truth is I don't see how in any way that is any one's business other than mine and the hubs. Right now there is so much on our plates with raising his 3, MiniMonkey, both of us working, managing the house that I can't imagine even making the time to be trying to conceive much less having another baby.  Not to mention another child though loved would be horribly irresponsible of us on so many fronts. I don't feel that it would be fair financially or  time wise.

Right now we are at a point in our lives of economic stability which is fabulous we have had some issues with his career and there is no way if we were down to one income again we could afford basics for our family. Not that I am opposed to getting assistance if you need it but I am most happy with our two incomes that we can meet our families expenses and afford small luxuries. However between back to school, birthdays,  it being less than half a year till Christmas, us needing to move, and misc expenses, not to mention the every and  and no sign of us winning the lottery money is always just a little tight.

Tick Tock, tick tock we are always racing the clock and some days I don't always see the hubs. That means I do it all solo until he gets off work and if he's doesn't off work till after baby is in bed than so be it. He's the primary provider which means while I work I am also the primary child care provider, house manager, cook, bill payer, etc. It's a lot of hats to wear and I generally do it gladly because I am our house's control freak. HOWEVER, I am tired. We ie Mini Monkey and I have recently with teething and nursing had some set backs in sleeping through the night. You might ask why I don't get my husband to wake up with baby? Since he can't nurse I don't see any reason why he should be sleep deprived too.

So in conclusion if someone could tell me a nice way to say No no more babies here, it would greatly appreciated. Until than unless you are the hubs, please don't enquire about the state of my uterus.